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Monday, 29 December 2014

How To Implement Meditation For Couples

By Stacey Burt


Many people have been suffering from various illnesses because of one factor that is not even caused any damage or change to the body systems. Stress has the capacity to make you feel things and even your health is affected. And sometimes, it can be too powerful that it can also meddle with your relationships. And if you are married, having fights frequently because of it is never a good sign.

In order for you to not experience the various negative effects of stress and so that your relationship would not suffer, there are various things that you can do. But probably the most efficient and most practical one would be meditation for couples. This is one way for you to both evaluate and fix all the problems that you are going through as a couple.

Most people who want to achieve a general state of calm turns to meditation. Many generations have witnessed the power that it has over the mind and the body. It helps you in achieving that well deserved relaxation for your brain. It does not only affect the brain but the emotions as well.

Today, this is an activity that is not only for individual doing, it can also be a form of therapy for couples. More and more relationships have been healed and strengthened because people choose to do this activity together. If you are having marital problems and is undergoing counseling for it, you might want to try meditating together.

This would not be effective if you are the only one who is interested about this. You also need to get your partner agree and participate, otherwise it would not be effective. In order to fix the problem, you both need to be present and do the activity together.

One of the effects of the meditation process is that it can reduce the negative emotions that you are feeling. Another is that it gives you a clear head. So when you just went through a fight, meditating puts all things in perspective. And it also makes you think of a way to reach an agreement or reconcile.

Both of you need to find a place where you can meditate. As a prerequisite, this must be a space that is quite and free from distractions. If you opt to do this at home, you need to turn off all the devices including your phones. You can also turn on the answering machine. Power down the computers and try to turn off everything that might provide distractions to you while you are meditating.

The best position for the meditation is to sit in a cross legged position. Your back must be against each other so both of you will feel the others presence. And you both have to concentrate in your breathing so that the thoughts will be cleared.

You might be able to think of a lot of things. But instead of ignoring them, it is important that you accept them as they come. This way, you will be able to let all the thoughts go easily.




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